OCD – Obsessive Compulsive Disorder requires a life of balance and a slow move back to control OCD, Obsessive and Eating disorders begin as an addiction like response to a life where needs are not being met and in all likelihood also, there is trauma and extreme anxieties that cannot be controlled. As the obsession takes over, anxieties increase and are not diminished. How can they be as the obsessive behaviour – be it checking, cleaning, repeating – adds to the burdens of living a life of balance? At the extreme, a void is created and panic sets in. This of course exacerbates the OCD or eating disorder – which can then be difficult to shift. Feelbetter Counselling - Treating Obsessive behaviours
One or more of the following is required :
My experience is that OCD can be well entrenched and that the sufferers have strong minds that can take some shifting. For this reason, they should not be rushed into giving up the obsessive behaviour. And like dipping your toe in the water, you only really properly swim when you are absolutely happy to. And at any time you can come back to the shore.
East London, on the Central Line, around 30 minutes from the City Landline: 020 8257 0429, Mobile/text: 07870 104651, Skype name: famrichhg |
Addiction Self help: Long term self help workbook and maintenance guide Visit the site here
Talk to Frank – quick help and advice Visit the site here
Information from HELPGUIDE Visit the site here
Personal Recovery Tools Visit the site here
Human Givens Intitute explains Addictions Visit the site here
Stopping Addictions Stopping Cocaine Stopping Binge Drinking |
Case study: Simon
Simon worked in a big law firm for many years– under real pressure but earning a lot of money. His problem was crack cocaine – which was now impacting on his work. He sometimes went missing from the office for days and when he returned he was hardly fit. His colleagues were covering for him but would not do so for much longer.
The first thing needed was to confront other problems in Simon’s life – trauma from his childhood and the nature of his marriage. When this had been put on a firmer footing, we worked together over 2/3 months to change the habitual triggers that led to the benders and also to build up his self confidence.Control came slowly and it was a number of months before Simon was happy to stop the habit completely
Case study: Brian
Brian had been drinking more and more as a means to suppress his anxiety – but he was suffering black outs after his binges when he could remember nothing. This terrified him. The source of the problem was trauma from a very bad accident – which had then put a stop to a cherished ambition to study.
What was needed was not only the de-traumatising of the experience but to help Brian to get his life back on track – a career path that would satisfy him and a better relationship with his long suffering girlfriend.
Case study: Ursula
Ursula was in her late twenties and over the past few years had found that most of her socialising on a Friday and Saturday entirely revolving around coke and alcohol. She was sick of it but found that she could not stop.
The first task was to get Ursula’s life working better. She needed to leave home and maybe even change jobs. She was a travel agent. She also needed to spend time with other friends who were not into this coke culture.
And when she was ready to stop, it was quite easy. The patterns of her weekends could be changed and her focus became increasingly balanced and healthy.
Case study: Evelyn
Evelyn’s life was working well. She was married and had a small child but found that her long standing cannabis habit was still with her. A lot of it was associated with sex with her husband.
We had one long session of therapy and that was all that was needed. I explained to Evelyn exactly what the psychological basis of her habit was and this relieved her. We then looked at the triggers that ended with the cannabis consumption – and found ways to shift and rehearse new triggers in trance.
The first session will only be charged if you found that it helped and/or you decide to continue with me.
Over 85% of my clients feel better at the end of their treatment - normally around 4 sessions. This is a high number and should give you confidence. I am pretty well unique as a private therapist - to maintain such records.
| A wonderful discovery, psychoanalysis. Makes quite simple people feel they're complex S.N. Behrman |