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Addiction self help – understand first and then take the action that will really help

Addictions self help principles are pretty much the same - whether you are looking to free yourself from drug addiction, shameful and private dependencies (for example gambling, retail or internet sex) or binge behaviours (eating and alcohol for example).

Addictions arise as coping strategies to high stress which not only do not work but make things worse. Addictions in origin are therefore pretty close to anxieties and depressions.

And finally, addiction self help requires adherence to similar principles that apply to recovery from other mental and emotional problems.

These are the themes of much of this website and rather than repeat all the arguments here, the best approach surely is that you read and understand what you need for yourself. Start with the links in the boxes below the images.



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Tools to prepare to move on from your Addiction



Tools to understand and maybe master your Addiction


Wrapping it up!

  1. In understanding exactly what an addiction is, focus on the psychological rather than the physical manifestations – read the cuckoo.
  2. Then evaluate your current work/life balance by undertaking a Needs audit.
  3. Decide how much progress you can make – regarding changes to how you do things and how you view things – that will take pressure off you and so reduce levels of arousal. This in turn will weaken the addiction’s hold.
  4. And then give some thought to the addiction in question – what are the patterns and triggers that feed it? You can then decide if you can shift these if only by a little - by changing your daily patterns or by imagining different outcomes.
  5. You might need help if arousal levels just do not come done. But make sure that it is the right kind of help – practical, knowledgeable and experienced.



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Needs audit download
Right-click to download here.

Do email me your results and I will happily comment and suggest your next steps.

Relaxation and Empowerment

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Right-click to download this Mp3 file here.

A great resource by Melissa E. Stefanski
Her Coping with Stress and Relaxation technique pages are clear to understand, packed full of things to use right away and a good place to begin to explore her site.

Emotions - making sense of them and how to use them
Rachel Green
Emotional Competency

Want to come off Medication?
Click here

Two excellent Breathing websites
Optimal Breathing exercises to aid stress management, anxiety, yoga, qigong, deep breathing, sleep, high blood pressure, singing, speaking, asthma, cross breathing, co-meditation, anger, road rage, and memoryAND
Better Breathing Breathing Development Research, Education, Services, Programs for Superior Health, Peak Performance, Life Extension. Better breathing is possible for everyone.

Health Warning

If there is trauma or near trauma, then the right kind of help will be better than trying to go it alone

The problem is – how do you find the best help? Well Human Givens practitioners for sure and others such as EMDR practitioners can help as they understand that just talking about the trauma or simple minded cognitive challenging of trauma will never work.



Download Self Help pdf files

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E Motion Downloads

    Andrew Richardson
    Building Self Confidence
    Relaxation
    Goal setting

    Lift Depression
    Post-Natal Depression
    Overcoming Grief

    Stopping Addictions
    Stopping Cocaine
    Stopping Binge Drinking

    Improving Partner Relationships

    Mark Bajer
    Break Through Phobias
    Anxiety Control it now
    Leave Trauma Behind

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If you just set people in motion they'll heal themselves
Gabrielle Roth