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Anxiety Treatment is about sticking to first principles
The most important first step in anxiety treatment is to remain focussed on what is actually going on beneath all of the detail and variety of how anxieties can manifest. Anxiety is an enduring and vital capacity of humans that gets out of hand, perhaps particularly in today's complex and highly stimulating environment. So what does this tell us about effective anxiety treatment for all types of anxieties? - It tells us that we have to take into account the unconscious aspects when treating these problems.
- It tells us that anxieties are natural responses that become habitual ones.
- It tells us that anxieties can look like a problem with body chemistry, but that this is not true in the vast majority of cases.
- It tells us that new skills, approaches and understandings can show us how to be calm again in situations that previously caused anxiety and panic.
- New, more appropriate patterns and associations can replace unhelpful ones.
- With a combined approach of thinking strategies, relaxation and visualisation techniques, knowledge and lifestyle alterations, even the most severe of panic and anxiety disorders can be cured.

How Feelbetter Counselling approaches Anxiety treatment
- Trance work to decouple the primitive limbic flight or fight firing and to de traumatise
We will be looking to find the source of the anxiety in a traumatic experience – with a view to Rewinding and so to de-traumatise. In many cases it is obvious what the trauma is, but not always. And so often the skill of skilful counselling is to find the trauma, however hidden and obscure it is – almost as a forensic exercise. The REWIND technique REWIND is a trance method refined from neurolinguistic programming (NLP) by the Human Given founders. It can also be understood as Imaginal Exposure Therapy. This is important, as defined this way it can be accepted as consistent with NICE guidelines. The key elements of REWIND are: - Activation of the memory
- Deep relaxation
- A dissociated rehearsal and revisiting of the memory, which has the effect of shifting the memory from the crude limbic system to the pre-frontal cortex.
After the REWIND has been completed, powerful and effective trance work is also possible. This can either rehearse beneficial change or work in other ways to enhance future possibilities and resources. |
- Development of a better relationship with the anxiety – not fearful, but accepting
It is often necessary as the first step in anxiety treatment to challenge and overcome excess worrying and projection and to establish a new relationship with the anxiety. No longer to be scared of the body manifestation of anxiety and to push it away - but instead to welcome it and so reduce its power. Accepting the Anxiety COMPLETELY Work with and adapt AWARE - Accept the Anxiety
Decide to be with the experience. Replace anger or rejection of with acceptance - Watch the Anxiety
Observe without judging – be detached and study it. Rate it from 1 to 10 and notice when it goes up or down and why. Remember you are not your anxiety – be in it but not of it. - Act with the anxiety
Keep behaving normally and doing what you intend to do. If you run your future anxiety will go up. If you stay you will decondition the anxiety. - Repeat the Steps
Continue accepting your anxiety, watching it and acting with it until it goes down to comfortable level. - Expect the Best
What you fear most may not happen. Surprise yourself by the effective way you handle it.
| The STOP system for Pattern breaking - Angers, Addictions, Panic attacks S - Stop/interrupt that behaviour T - Take a step back O - into your Observing Self P - Practise awareness and emotional intelligence | - The development of new thinking styles, relaxation help and useful visualisations for anxiety treatment
We are talking of skilful counselling principles - notably Normalisation. This is the clear explanation that anxiety is natural and rooted in human physiology and will typically be an early part of effective intervention - to take pressure off anxious clients.
The particular manifestation of the anxiety may then need to be dealt with, either by challenging unhelpful beliefs or more probably by reframing and trance work. The treatment of performance anxiety will be different from a phobia or a social anxiety – the trance and visualisation work will have a different emphasis.
See also the specific time line or the life story re-writing that sometimes needs to done.
Much can be taught and understood about how to relax including tools to be used as a matter of course and in emergencies.
- Being primed and confident to take action to make necessary life changes - the important end part of most anxiety treatment.
To understand how the anxiety is impacting adversely on the client’s capacity to get essential needs met. Although a formal needs audit is not always necessary, implicit needs evaluation is a key part of information gathering – to establish what goals may need to be set, what action might need to be suggested later on and how visualisation and trance work might need to be structured.
There is also no doubt that in serious cases, the initial Trauma and PTSD has a devastating impact on that person's ability to lead a balanced life. Work and relationships are difficult to sustain, addictions take hold and lives can be ruined. In these cases, more good counselling will be needed. But the principles remain the same - taking away trauma and getting needs met.
It is also always interesting to know where needs are being met (despite the anxiety) as this will point to where resources and motivation are strong.
- The teaching of meditation and being present.
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The devil is in the detail and to find out more of what really helps anxious people, then do go to the relevant web page below.
Go to Anxiety Symptoms Go to Panic Attacks Go to Trauma and PTSD Go to Phobias Go to Generalised Anxiety & Worrying Go to Social Anxiety Go to Performance Anxiety
Go to Anxiety Case Studies
Go to Anxiety and Depression
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Anxiety help
Stage Fright case study
Right-click to download this PDF file here.
 Relaxation and Empowerment
Right-click to download this Mp3 file here. Rachel Green has an excellent site covering tools and insights aimed specifically to help women with confidence and anxieties (but men will get a lot from it too). Two further sites which are good starting points for additional work that might need to be done - to build self confidence and for social skills. A good information source Anxiety Disorders: Symptoms, Diagnosis and Treatment Look also at Anxiety help with Neurofeedback Click here
Health Warning If there is trauma or near trauma, then the right kind of help will be better than trying to go it alone The problem is – how do you find the best help. Well Human Givens practitioners for sure and others such as EMDR practitioners can help as they understand that just talking about the trauma or simple minded cognitive challenging of trauma will never work. | Or of course Contact Me
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