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Introducing the cycle of depression

This is what happens when depression symptoms and signs of depression takes hold?

  • Something happens in your life that pushes you off balance... and you quite naturally and healthily begin to worry about it, looking for a solution that will calm you and bring you back to equilibrium.
  • But this does not happen and as the problem persists, it becomes harder and harder to deal with. And you are aware of those rigid thinking habits that arise whenever you are under pressure and maybe also the emotion of bad past memories - and as these impose themselves, it is even more difficult to get your life back on track.
  • Then you’re sleeping begins to deteriorate and in particular you are increasingly tired and exhausted in the morning when you wake up. You may also be dimly aware that you are dreaming much more.

At this stage, a downward spiral really gets underway - the classic signs of depression.

  • Your problems become harder and harder to deal and seem to be multiplying and as motivation and energy disappear, you worry more and more, introspecting and blaming yourself.

What is happening is you are locking into a depression trance, focussing internally and negatively, losing hope and as good deep wave sleep becomes pushed out by excessive dreaming, you may finally be finding that physical aches and pains add to your sense of hopelessness and stuckness - another of the signs of depression.

This used to be called a state of nervous exhaustion and you can see why. If very severe, this can even transmute into psychotic experiences. But let’s leave that for now.

Here is a very simple depression cycle from clinical depression.co.uk which explains very well the heart of symptoms of depression.

The simple explanation of depression and the symptoms of a depression in a nutshell:

Depression is the mental and physical exhaustion caused by the body’s need to dream more than it is capable of doing in order to cope with a situation that appears increasingly out of control.

And why is there the need to engage in high energy dreaming? It is the attempt to clear excessive levels of arousal, worrying and exhaustion, which caused the problem in the first place.

And so we have a self feeding vicious circle where symptoms and signs of depression multiply.

Typical Depression Symptoms

You can read many lists of depression symptoms and indeed for many lists, this is all they offer as they have no coherent explanation. Such as:

  • Feeling miserable and sad, being exhausted, finding the smallest tasks impossible
  • Losing any sense of enjoyment
  • Feeling a failure, guilty and a burden and that life is not worth living or passing you by
  • Avoiding people, losing self confidence
  • Being tense and irritable all the time
  • Having difficulty sleeping, dreaming all night long
  • Enduring physical aches and pains which appear to have no physical cause.
It is easy to see how all these symptoms fit into the explanation above.

Common misconceptions about Depression and its symptoms

Depression symptoms are caused by a chemical imbalance

Low serotonin is the result not the cause of depression – and this is why anti-depressants are rarely the answer. Anti-depressants treat symptoms and not underlying causes and seem to work by suppressing REM (or dream) sleep.

Depression symptoms are hereditary

The fact that family members may all suffer from depression is better explained by their common environments than their common genes. That it is learned – in terms of thinking styles and coping mechanisms.

Depression symptoms reflect a disease

It is not a biological disorder – there is no chemical test available or possible or yet devised that can mark a depression.

    How else but through environmental factors can the tenfold increase in depression symptoms amongst those born after 1945 be explained? Surely, it is that society has changed – family breakdown, greater materialism and focus on self, a reduced sense of obligation and duty, an increasing dependence on the state – how is that for starters as the environmental factors that create worry and disempowerment – all of which make it more difficult to get our essential human needs met.

There are many different types of depression – such as Post partum, grief, teenage etc.

No, when you really investigate all depressions and symptoms of depression, they all have the same underlying causes. You might as well have a special “I have been jilted by my girlfriend” depression.



A tale of two websites

It is certainly not my purpose to use this space to be overly critical of others. Mental and emotional health and healing is not helped by this and my purpose is positive. BUT ...yes there is but. In the field of depression symptoms understanding and relief there is both appalling ignorance and great wisdom and insight. And my experience is that the former (ignorance) is pretty well entirely located in the official, medical and conventional space and the latter (wisdom and insight) is where those who understand what Human Givens understands are located.

Here are two websites – all about depression and clinical depression

The first – all about depression has been put together by a Dr P and has pages on the causes and treatment of depression. Yet the causes page, even though admitting that they are not known (“unfortunately, it is not fully known what exactly causes clinical depression for a particular individual”) proceeds to propagate misleading conventional wisdom. Depression symptoms are no more than lists. And the depression treatment page, assumes without evidence that an approach of diagnosis and then pharmaceutical intervention is the correct one. The website even seems to recommend ECT. And as expected, the site hides behind the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) as the font of all wisdom on mental illness, when it is the screen behind which professional psychiatrists hide to justify their livelihood and expertise.

The second, from the people who run an organisation called Hypnosis Downloads is brilliant. These guys do not have letters after their name but instead they know what a depression is and how to treat it. They are selling their product to help you and also they provide a free e-book – which again is brilliant. They know all about Human Givens and understand the simple and profound wisdom of what we know is a depression and how to lift it.

So there you have it – a site that reflects what the medical experts say that is ignorant, self satisfied and probably dangerous and another that may appear unconventional but contains all that one would need both to understand and free yourself from this terrible condition.


Depression counselling is the core of what Feelbetter Counselling East London does. This is because we know what a depression is, a REM sleep disorder caused by excessive worrying. You won't find many doctors telling you this. Yet it is so.

Depression relief need not be difficult and can be quick.

Does this make sense to you?

The Depression forum is your space to share what you have found or know to be true.
There is as much space as you need - write a webpage, invite comments. Say what you think!



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Health Warning

Depression means hopelessness and a mind that cannot think straight. It is so hard therefore to realise how quickly you can begin to feel better.

Whatever you do, don’t ever go to a counsellor who encourages you to talk about your past. And don’t believe that you need anti-depressants because there is nothing else.

Download the Mp3 and listen to it frequently. Read the lift depression book. Get yourself sleeping and dreaming better and begin a virtuous circle.



Contact Me for advice, elucidation of what you have read and of course if you need help now and are perhaps desperate.

I came to Andrew in the depths of a very bad depression, I have suffered with depression before but nothing like this and I have had counselling before but didn't want to go through the whole me speaking for 95% of the session about how awful I'm feeling. and getting very little constructive help on how to change this.

I warmed to Andrew immediately and felt I could trust him which was very important to me. He explained that the Human Givens therapy was very effective and usually four sessions was all that was required, yeah right I thought to myself.

Well, I'm very pleased to say Andrew was right. I now feel I have the understanding and the tools to allow me to live the life I want, mentally strong and free from depression. I still listen to Andrew's relaxation cd every morning which keeps me mindful and acts as a gentle nudge if I'm feeling at all negative.

Married woman in her forties

Whatever I had tried, nothing seemed to shift that horrible feeling of no energy and no pleasure- until I came to you. You helped me to see my situation differently and the deep relaxation work we did has transformed how I am day to day. Thank you.

Woman with chronic depression

Apologies for the length of time I have taken to get back to you. I was at first shocked at just how quick you managed to turn around my depression and I thought that after a few days I would slide back. Weeks later and if anything I feel even better with each day.

It has now been a couple of months since our last session and my sleep has returned to normal. With each day that goes by I’m finding new ways to tackle what used to be problems but are now challenges that when I complete I am getting a real buzz from.

I would like to thank you Andrew for your help and support and I would recommend you to anyone contemplating making the decision to use his services.

Young man suffering from a severe depression

Thank you so much for helping my daughter to get her life back. The sessions have been so very helpful and have allowed her to emerge from a very dark place. The Human Givens approach came highly recommended to me and I will certainly recommend it to others.

Mother writing concerning her very depressed daughter in her twenties


Over 85% of my clients feel better at the end of their treatment - normally around 4 sessions. This is a high number and should give you confidence. I am pretty well unique as a private therapist - to maintain such records.

The first session will only be charged if you found that it helped and/or you decide to continue with me.

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    The Depression forum is your space to share what you have found or know to be true.
    There is as much space as you need - write a webpage, invite comments. Say what you think!



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